Marriage Quote by Irvin D. Yalom
““I have no intention to get married because it would only cause me worries. And why would that be the case? I would be jealous, because my wife would cheat on me. Why are you so sure of that? Because I would deserve it. Why is that? Because I would have married.””
About This Quote
Source Interview: “On Marriage and Fear” with Irvin D. Yalom, 2018
Fear of betrayal and jealousy can paradoxically justify avoidance of marriage, revealing deeper insecurities.
In simple terms: Fear drives avoidance of commitment.
Key Takeaway
Address underlying insecurities before relationships.
Themes
psychology
relationships
fear
commitment
self-awareness
Mood
introspective
analytical
Type
psychological
therapeutic
When to use this quote
- therapy sessions
- personal journaling
- relationship counseling
Key Concepts
attachment theory
existential anxiety
self-fulfilling prophecy
Questions to Reflect On
- What fears underlie your reluctance to commit?
- How can you cultivate trust in relationships?
A Different Perspective
Avoiding marriage may not resolve underlying fears.
![“I don't like being away from home. That's one reason why I don't work as much as I used to [when I started my career], because so many things are on the road. I just don't want to be away from my husband, my dogs and my home. I don't sing that much any more because that also takes you on the road.” quote by Jane Powell](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/07c/jane-powell-36243_away_i-don-t-like-being-away-from-home-that-s_278.jpg)
