Communication Quote by Iris Murdoch
““All the time when I speak to you, even now, I'm saying not precisely what I think, but what will impress you and make you respond. That's so even between us - and how much more it's so where there are stronger motives for deception. In fact, one's so used to this one hardly sees it. The whole language is a machine for making falsehoods.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Sea, The Sea, 1978
People often tailor speech to impress, turning language into a tool for deception, especially when motives are strong.
In simple terms: Speech can become a deception tool.
Key Takeaway
Be aware of hidden motives in conversation.
Themes
communication
deception
motivation
Mood
thoughtful
critical
Type
philosophical
ethical
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- political discourse
- media analysis
- negotiations
Key Concepts
Rhetoric
psychology
authenticity
Questions to Reflect On
- What motives drive you to say what impresses others?
- How can you ensure sincerity in dialogue?
A Different Perspective
Honesty may be compromised by desire for approval.
