Childhood Quote by Harville Hendrix
“We always marry someone for the purpose of finishing our childhood.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Getting the Love You Want, Harville Hendrix, 1988
People often choose partners to fulfill unresolved childhood needs, seeking completion rather than true compatibility.
In simple terms: We marry to finish childhood emotional gaps.
Key Takeaway
Seek partners who complement, not complete, you.
Themes
relationships
psychology
attachment
Mood
thoughtful
hopeful
Type
psychological
relationship
When to use this quote
- marriage counseling
- dating
- family dynamics
- personal therapy
Key Concepts
developmental psychology
love
self‑growth
Questions to Reflect On
- What childhood needs influence your choices?
- How can you nurture those needs independently?
A Different Perspective
Relying on a partner for emotional completion can be unhealthy.
