Attracts Quote by Harriet Lerner
“What initially attracts us and what later becomes 'the problem' are usually one and the same.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Dance of Anger, Harriet Lerner, 1985
Initial attractions can later become problematic when the same underlying factors cause both appeal and difficulty.
In simple terms: What draws us can later become a problem.
Key Takeaway
Watch for hidden issues in appealing situations.
Themes
relationships
self-awareness
psychology
Mood
reflective
concerned
Type
psychological
advisory
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- team dynamics
- leadership decisions
Key Concepts
attraction
problem emergence
self-reflection
Questions to Reflect On
- What signs indicate an attraction is becoming problematic?
- How can you address issues before they grow?
A Different Perspective
Attraction may mask underlying challenges.
