Apology Quote by Harriet Lerner
““The need for apologies and repair is a singularly human one---both on the giving and receiving ends. We are hardwired to seek justice and fairness (however we see it), so the need to receive a sincere apology that's due is deeply felt. We are also imperfect humans and prone to error and defensiveness, so the challenge of offering a heartfelt apology permeates almost every relationship.””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Dance of Anger, 1985
Apologies are essential for relational repair, yet offering them is difficult due to pride and fear of vulnerability.
In simple terms: Apologies heal but are hard to give.
Key Takeaway
Practice sincere, timely apologies.
Themes
relationships
apology
justice
humanity
Mood
reflective
empathetic
thoughtful
Type
self‑help
psychology
When to use this quote
- marriage counseling
- team meetings
- friendship disputes
- family gatherings
Key Concepts
emotional intelligence
communication
conflict resolution
Questions to Reflect On
- When have you struggled to apologize?
- How can you receive apologies gracefully?
A Different Perspective
Apologies can feel insincere if not matched by change.
