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Alone in love Quote by Harriet Lerner

“Love alone is never a good enough reason to marry.” quote by Harriet Lerner
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“Love alone is never a good enough reason to marry.”

Harriet Lerner

About This Quote

Source Book: Women Who Love Too Much, Harriet Lerner, 1992

Love alone cannot sustain a marriage; deeper compatibility and shared values are essential.

In simple terms: Love isn’t enough for marriage.

Key Takeaway

Seek compatibility beyond affection.

Themes

relationships marriage values

Mood

thoughtful serious

Type

advice reflective

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • long‑term partnership
  • marriage counseling

Key Concepts

attachment theory compatibility

Questions to Reflect On

  • What non‑emotional factors matter most to you?
  • How do you assess compatibility?
A Different Perspective

Love may fade; practical concerns matter.

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