Make Worse Quote by Harriet Lerner
““If you treat man as he appears to be, you make him worse than he is. But if you treat man as if he already were what he potentially could be, you make him what he should be.””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Dance of Anger by Harriet Lerner, 1990
Treating people as their potential self encourages growth, whereas seeing only their flaws limits them.
In simple terms: Seeing potential inspires improvement.
Key Takeaway
Assume the best, guide growth.
Themes
growth
potential
perception
Mood
encouraging
optimistic
Type
inspirational
motivational
When to use this quote
- education
- leadership
- coaching
- mentoring
Key Concepts
psychology
human development
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you balance realistic expectations with potential?
- What barriers prevent people from reaching potential?
A Different Perspective
If expectations are too high, it can cause pressure.
