Asks Quote by Haim Ginott
“Whenever I hear about a child needing something, I ask myself, 'Is it what he needs or what he wants?' It isn't always easy to distinguish between the two. A child has many real needs which can and should be satisfied. His wants are a bottomless pit. He wants, for example, to sleep with his parents. He needs to be in his own bed. At Christmas he wants every toy advertised on television. He needs only one or two.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Between Parent and Child, 1975
Distinguish children's needs from wants; satisfy essential needs while setting limits on endless desires.
In simple terms: Separate needs from wants; meet needs, limit wants.
Key Takeaway
Prioritize essential needs over endless wants.
Themes
parenting
child development
needs vs wants
boundaries
Mood
caring
practical
Type
parenting
educational
When to use this quote
- parent‑child conversations
- gift giving
- sleep routines
Key Concepts
psychology
developmental theory
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you identify a child's true need?
- What limits will you set on material wants?
A Different Perspective
Children may manipulate wants, challenging boundaries.
