Actually Quote by Gretchen Rubin
“Try to never say 'yes' on the phone; instead, say, 'I'll get back to you.' When you're actually speaking to someone, the desire to be accommodating is very strong, and can lead you to say 'yes' without enough consideration.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin, 2009
Avoid impulsive agreement by deferring response, allowing thoughtful decision making.
In simple terms: Delay saying yes to think first.
Key Takeaway
Pause, then respond.
Themes
communication
decision-making
boundaries
Mood
thoughtful
strategic
Type
advice
practical
When to use this quote
- business calls
- personal requests
- negotiations
- team meetings
Key Concepts
assertiveness
self-control
social dynamics
Questions to Reflect On
- How often do you say yes without thinking?
- What could you gain by pausing?
A Different Perspective
May cause missed opportunities if overused.
