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Oscar wilde Quote by Gretchen Rubin

“As Oscar Wilde wrote, with his characteristic brand of thought-provoking overstatement, “When we are happy we are always good, but when we are good we are not always happy.” Now,” quote by Gretchen Rubin
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““As Oscar Wilde wrote, with his characteristic brand of thought-provoking overstatement, “When we are happy we are always good, but when we are good we are not always happy.” Now,””

Gretchen Rubin

About This Quote

Source Book: Better Than Before, 2010

Wilde noted happiness isn’t always linked to goodness; good deeds don’t guarantee joy.

In simple terms: Goodness ≠ happiness.

Key Takeaway

Accept that virtue may not bring joy.

Themes

ethics happiness philosophy human condition

Mood

contemplative analytical

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • volunteering
  • career choices
  • relationship building
  • personal ethics

Key Concepts

moral psychology hedonic paradox existential thought

Questions to Reflect On

  • Why do we expect happiness from doing good?
  • How can we find joy while acting ethically?
A Different Perspective

May oversimplify complex emotional states.

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