Assholery Quote by Geoffrey Nunberg
““Culpable obtuseness. He should know better. That's one reason why we don't use the a-word, for example, of little children. They can merit the s-word, because there's a malignity that's innate in little kids sometimes, but you can't merit the a-word until you're old enough so that you ought to know better.””
About This Quote
Source Interview: Language and Ethics Podcast, 2015
People are judged by actions appropriate to age; children can be blamed for innate mischief, but adults are expected to know better and thus bear harsher moral labels.
In simple terms: Adults are held to higher moral standards than children.
Recognize age‑based moral expectations.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- parenting
- legal responsibility
- media commentary
- education
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do we balance empathy with accountability?
- When should moral language shift with age?
Adults may lack awareness of societal expectations, making judgment unfair.