Stupid people Quote by G.K. Chesterton
““Some stupid people started the idea that because women obviously back up their own people through everything, therefore women are blind and do not see anything. They can hardly have known any women. The same women who are ready to defend their men through thick and thin are (in their personal intercourse with the man) almost morbidly lucid about the thinness of his excuses or the thickness of his head. A man's friend likes him but leaves him as he is: his wife loves him and is always trying to turn him into somebody else. Women who are utter mystics in their creed are utter cynics in their criticism. Thackeray expressed this well when he made Pendennis' mother, who worshipped her son as a god, yet assume that he would go wrong as a man. She underrated his virtue, though she overrated his value. The devotee is entirely free to criticise; the fanatic can safely be a sceptic. Love is not blind; that is the last thing that it is. Love is bound; and the more it is bound the less it is blind.””
About This Quote
Source Essay: The Ethics of Love, G.K. Chesterton, 1905
Love is not blind; it is bound and critical, allowing true insight into a partner’s flaws and virtues.
In simple terms: Love sees clearly, not blindly.
Embrace honest, critical love.
Themes
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Type
When to use this quote
- marriage counseling
- personal growth
- literary analysis
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you balance love with honest critique?
- What role does criticism play in deepening relationships?
Blind love can be idealized; critical love may be uncomfortable.