Communication Quote by G.A. Aiken
““Rhiannon readied her speech. The speech she’d given more than once over the years to Éibhear and, when they were much younger, to her older sons. The one that included things like: “I’m sure your father didn’t mean that.” “Of course your father loves you.” “No. He didn’t try to sell your egg to the highest human bidder.” “And of course, he never tried to kill you while you slept!””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Song of Rhiannon, 1995
A mother repeatedly reassures her children that their father’s actions were harmless, despite evidence to the contrary, highlighting denial and protective storytelling.
In simple terms: Parents may deny harsh truths to protect children.
Key Takeaway
Question the narratives we tell to shield loved ones.
Themes
family
denial
protection
communication
Mood
reflective
concerned
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- parenting
- family gatherings
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
psychology
narrative
cognitive dissonance
Questions to Reflect On
- How does protective denial affect trust?
- When is honesty more beneficial than comfort?
A Different Perspective
Denial can prevent confronting real issues.
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