Contrary to popular belief Quote by Frederick Dodson
““It is impossible to be hurt by someone you love contrary to popular belief. Only something or someone you fear can hurt you.””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Power of Awareness, 1995
Love does not cause pain; fear is the true source of hurt.
In simple terms: Fear, not love, causes hurt.
Identify and address fears to reduce suffering.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal therapy
- relationship counseling
- self‑reflection
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What fears are underlying your pain?
- How can you transform fear into growth?
Love can still cause pain through betrayal.