Alternatives Quote by Erich Fromm

“Love of others and love of ourselves are not alternatives. On the contrary, an attitude of love towards themselves will be found in all those who are capable of loving others.” quote by Erich Fromm — Download Open image

“Love of others and love of ourselves are not alternatives. On the contrary, an attitude of love towards themselves will be found in all those who are capable of loving others.”

Erich Fromm

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Source Book: The Art of Loving, 1956

Self‑love and love for others are intertwined; loving oneself enables loving others fully.

In simple terms: Self‑love fuels love for others.

Key Takeaway

Practice self‑compassion.

Themes

love self‑acceptance interdependence

Mood

reflective warm

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

therapy
education
community building
parenting
teamwork

Key Concepts

psychology humanism relationships

Questions to Reflect On

How does self‑love enhance empathy?
What limits your capacity to love?

A Different Perspective

Self‑love can be misinterpreted as selfishness.

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