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Love Quote by Erich Fromm

“Love is an activity, not a passive affect; it is a “standing in,” not a “falling for.” In the most general way, the active character of love can be described by stating that love is primarily giving, not receiving.” quote by Erich Fromm
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““Love is an activity, not a passive affect; it is a “standing in,” not a “falling for.” In the most general way, the active character of love can be described by stating that love is primarily giving, not receiving.””

Erich Fromm

About This Quote

Source Book: The Art of Loving by Erich Fromm, 1956

Love is an active, giving force rather than a passive feeling; it involves standing with, not falling for, another.

In simple terms: Love is about active giving, not passive feeling.

Key Takeaway

Practice active love.

Themes

relationships psychology ethics activity

Mood

thoughtful hopeful

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • marriage counseling
  • friendship building
  • community service
  • personal growth

Key Concepts

Altruism attachment theory existentialism

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you give without losing self?
  • What does “standing in” mean to you?
A Different Perspective

Giving can lead to burnout if not balanced.

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