Differences Quote by Irvin D. Yalom
“Love is not just a passion spark between two people; there is infinite difference between falling in love and standing in love. Rather, love is a way of being, a "giving to," not a 'falling for"; a mode of relating at large, not an act limited to a single person.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Love and Existential Psychotherapy, 1995
Love differs between an intense initial attraction and a sustained, caring presence; it is an ongoing practice of giving, not a fleeting feeling.
In simple terms: Love is a lasting practice, not just a spark.
Key Takeaway
Cultivate love through ongoing giving.
Themes
love
relationships
growth
commitment
Mood
hopeful
reflective
Type
inspirational
philosophical
When to use this quote
- marriage
- friendship
- parenting
- community building
Key Concepts
existential psychology
attachment theory
mindfulness
Questions to Reflect On
- What daily actions nurture lasting love?
- How can you shift from feeling love to practicing love?
A Different Perspective
Maintaining love requires effort and intentionality, which can be challenging.
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