Being in love Quote by C. S. Lewis
“Love as distinct from “being in love” is not merely a feeling. It is a deep unity, maintained by the will and deliberately strengthened by habit...”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Four Loves, 1960
Love beyond romance is a deliberate, willful unity built through habit, not just feeling.
In simple terms: Deep love requires intentional effort.
Key Takeaway
Cultivate love through conscious habit.
Themes
love
will
habit
Mood
thoughtful
hopeful
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- marriage
- friendship
- family life
Key Concepts
relationships
spirituality
Questions to Reflect On
- Can love be taught?
- What habits sustain lasting love?
A Different Perspective
Habitual love may feel forced without genuine feeling.
