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Appearance Quote by Emily Post

“Rather be frumpy than vulgar! Much. Frumps are often celebrities in disguise -- but a person of vulgar appearance is vulgar all through.” quote by Emily Post
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“Rather be frumpy than vulgar! Much. Frumps are often celebrities in disguise -- but a person of vulgar appearance is vulgar all through.”

Emily Post

About This Quote

Source Book: Etiquette in Society, in Business, in Politics, 1922

Choosing modesty over flashy vulgarity preserves genuine character and respectability.

In simple terms: Modesty beats vulgarity.

Key Takeaway

Embrace humility, avoid flashy pretensions.

Themes

modesty authenticity respect appearance character

Mood

reflective thoughtful

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • personal branding
  • social interactions
  • media appearances
  • fashion choices

Key Concepts

social norms self-presentation identity celebrity culture

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does your appearance affect how you are perceived?
  • When is modesty more valuable than self‑expression?
A Different Perspective

Vulgarity can be subjective and culturally dependent.

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