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Angry Quote by Ella Fitzgerald

“I used to be very self-conscious. I used to wish I was pretty. My cousin Georgia always taught me that if you smile, people will like you. Sometimes people will say something you don't like, and you get angry a bit, but you just smile. You let it go by, even if you really would like to choke 'em…” quote by Ella Fitzgerald
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“I used to be very self-conscious. I used to wish I was pretty. My cousin Georgia always taught me that if you smile, people will like you. Sometimes people will say something you don't like, and you get angry a bit, but you just smile. You let it go by, even if you really would like to choke 'em. By smiling, I think I've made more friends than if I was the other way.”

Ella Fitzgerald

About This Quote

Source Interview: Ella Fitzgerald on Confidence, 1965

Self‑consciousness can be eased by smiling, which fosters social connection and reduces anger.

In simple terms: Smiling builds friendships.

Key Takeaway

Smile to ease tension.

Themes

confidence social skills emotional regulation

Mood

optimistic empathetic

Type

inspirational personal

When to use this quote

  • networking events
  • conflict situations
  • personal growth

Key Concepts

self‑esteem interpersonal dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does smiling affect your mood?
  • When has a smile changed a difficult interaction?
A Different Perspective

Smiling may mask deeper issues if overused.

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