Love Quote by Elizabeth Strout
““What young people didn't know, she thought, lying down beside this man, his hand on her shoulder, her arm; oh, what young people did not know. They did not know that lumpy, aged, and wrinkled bodies were as needy as their own young, firm ones, that love was not to be tossed away carelessly . . . No, if love was available, one chose it, or didn't chose it. And if her platter had been full with the goodness of Henry and she had found it burdensome, had flicked it off crumbs at a time, it was because she had not know what one should know: that day after day was unconsciously squandered. . . . But here they were, and Olive pictured two slices of Swiss cheese pressed together, such holes they brought to this union--what pieces life took out of you.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Olive Kitteridge, by Elizabeth Strout, 2008
A reflection on how love and aging are intertwined, showing that older bodies still crave affection and that neglecting love wastes time.
In simple terms: A love and aging are linked; ignoring love wastes life.
Key Takeaway
Cherish love at any age.
Themes
aging
love
neglect
time
relationships
Mood
reflective
melancholic
Type
literary
philosophical
When to use this quote
- marriage
- elder care
- personal growth
- relationship counseling
Key Concepts
human need
intergenerational intimacy
existential reflection
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you take love for granted?
- How does aging change our view of intimacy?
A Different Perspective
Love may be chosen but can also be ignored, leading to regret.
