Parenting Quote by Elizabeth Strout
““I said on the phone to my mother, “I think I’m going to write the story of the Burgess kids.” “It’s a good one,” she agreed. “People will say it’s not nice to write about people I know.” My mother was tired that night. She yawned. “Well, you don’t know them,” she said. “Nobody ever knows anyone.””
About This Quote
Writing about familiar people can feel invasive, yet personal stories often resonate because they tap into universal experiences of knowing and not knowing others.
In simple terms: Writing about acquaintances feels risky but authentic.
Personal narratives bridge intimacy and universality.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- memoir creation
- journalism about friends
- family histories
Key Concepts
Practical Applications
- Obtain consent when possible
- Focus on emotional truth over factual detail
Questions to Reflect On
- When does personal detail enhance a story?
- How to balance truth and privacy?
Over‑personalization may alienate readers who cannot relate.