Skip to content

Love Quote by Dorothy Allison

“Romantic love continues the status quo in which we both are victimized and victimize each other.” quote by Dorothy Allison
Download Open image
““Romantic love continues the status quo in which we both are victimized and victimize each other.””

Dorothy Allison

About This Quote

Source Essay: “The Politics of Love,” 1995

Romantic love perpetuates power imbalances, making partners both victims and perpetrators, thus maintaining the status quo.

In simple terms: Romantic love can trap partners in mutual victimization.

Key Takeaway

Seek equitable, conscious relationships.

Themes

relationships power victimization status quo

Mood

hopeful critical

Type

social psychological

When to use this quote

  • counseling
  • relationship workshops
  • social activism
  • media critique

Key Concepts

feminist theory psychology

Questions to Reflect On

  • What steps foster healthy power dynamics?
  • How can love be a force for change?
A Different Perspective

Love can also empower mutual growth if redefined.

4.0 out of 5 (7 ratings)

More by Dorothy Allison

Explore all 189 Dorothy Allison quotes

More Love quotes

Browse all 233,035 Love quotes