Love Quote by Dietrich von Hildebrand
““The basic attitude of reverence is the presupposition for every true love, above all, the love of neighbor, because it alone opens our eyes to the value of men as spiritual persons, and because, without this awareness, no love is possible. Reverence for the beloved one is also an essential element of every love. To give attention to the specific meaning and value of his individuality, to display consideration toward him, instead of forcing our wishes on him, is part of reverence. It is from reverence that there flows the willingness of a lover to grant the beloved the spiritual "space" needed to freely express his own individuality. All these elements of every true love flow from reverence. What would a mother's love be without reverence for the growing being, for all the possibilities of value that yet lie dormant, for the preciousness of the child's soul?””
About This Quote
True love requires reverence, recognizing the other's spiritual value and granting them freedom, which is essential for any deep relationship, including parental love.
In simple terms: Love needs respect and space for each person’s individuality.
Key Takeaway
Respect others’ individuality to foster deep love.
Themes
love
reverence
spirituality
relationships
Mood
thoughtful
inspirational
Type
philosophical
ethical
When to use this quote
- marriage counseling
- parenting
- friendship
- teamwork
- leadership
Key Concepts
ethical love
personal autonomy
parental affection
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you show reverence in daily interactions?
- What boundaries protect both partners’ individuality?
A Different Perspective
Reverence may be hard to practice when self‑interest dominates.
