Growing old Quote by Dennis Lehane
““She blew a stream of smoke up at the empty clotheslines. 'These silly dreams you have when you're young. I mean, what, Katie and Brendan Harris were going ot make a life in Las Vegas? How long would that little Eden have lasted? Maybe they'd be on their second trailer park, second kid, but it would have hit them sooner or later - life isn't happily ever after and golden sunsets and shit like that. It's work. The person you love is rarely worthy of how big your love is. Because no one is worthy of that and maybe no one deserves the burden of it, either. You'll be let down. You'll be disappointed and have your trust broken and have a lot of real sucky days. You lose more than you win. You hate the person you love as much as you love him. But, shit, you roll up your sleeves and work - at everything -because that's what growing older is.””
About This Quote
Life is hard, love is burdensome, and disappointment is inevitable; work persists despite disillusionment.
In simple terms: Life is tough, love can hurt, but we keep working.
Accept hardship and keep moving forward.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- relationships
- career
- resilience
- daily grind
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What gives you strength during tough times?
- How can you find meaning beyond work?
Optimism may overlook systemic issues.