Aches and pains Quote by Anonymous
““Prayer of an Anonymous Abbess: Lord, thou knowest better than myself that I am growing older and will soon be old. Keep me from becoming too talkative, and especially from the unfortunate habit of thinking that I must say something on every subject and at every opportunity. Release me from the idea that I must straighten out other peoples' affairs. With my immense treasure of experience and wisdom, it seems a pity not to let everybody partake of it. But thou knowest, Lord, that in the end I will need a few friends. Keep me from the recital of endless details; give me wings to get to the point. Grant me the patience to listen to the complaints of others; help me to endure them with charity. But seal my lips on my own aches and pains -- they increase with the increasing years and my inclination to recount them is also increasing. I will not ask thee for improved memory, only for a little more humility and less self-assurance when my own memory doesn't agree with that of others. Teach me the glorious lesson that occasionally I may be wrong. Keep me reasonably gentle. I do not have the ambition to become a saint -- it is so hard to live with some of them -- but a harsh old person is one of the devil's masterpieces. Make me sympathetic without being sentimental, helpful but not bossy. Let me discover merits where I had not expected them, and talents in people whom I had not thought to possess any. And, Lord, give me the grace to tell them so. Amen””
About This Quote
A prayer seeking humility, restraint, and attentive listening, asking for the wisdom to speak less, hear more, and recognize others' hidden gifts.
In simple terms: Seek humility and attentive listening.
Speak less, listen more.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- elder mentorship
- team leadership
- counseling
- personal reflection
Key Concepts
Practical Applications
- mindfulness training
- communication workshops
Questions to Reflect On
- How does silence enhance personal growth?
- What practices help balance speaking and listening?