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“Most therapists do not appear to know how to pinpoint and reverse therapeutic resistance - to head it off at the pass. Instead, they try to persuade the patient to change, or to do the psychotherapy homework, while the patient resists and 'yes-butts' the therapist. The therapist ends up feeling…” quote by David D. Burns
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“Most therapists do not appear to know how to pinpoint and reverse therapeutic resistance - to head it off at the pass. Instead, they try to persuade the patient to change, or to do the psychotherapy homework, while the patient resists and 'yes-butts' the therapist. The therapist ends up feeling frustrated and resentful, and doing all the work.”

David D. Burns

About This Quote

Therapists often fail to address resistance directly, leading to frustration and one-sided effort.

In simple terms: Therapists get stuck when they ignore resistance.

Key Takeaway

Address resistance early.

Themes

therapy resistance communication

Mood

frustrated hopeful

Type

clinical educational

When to use this quote

  • clinical sessions
  • patient engagement
  • training programs

Key Concepts

psychology counseling techniques

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can therapists detect resistance sooner?
  • What techniques reduce patient pushback?
A Different Perspective

Therapists may lack tools to identify resistance.

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