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Children Quote by David Benatar

“There is one kind of exception: those who believe that the world is too horrible a place into which to bring children. Such people believe that there happens to be too much bad in the world to make procreation acceptable. That belief must be right. I disagree only in one way with those who advance…” quote by David Benatar
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““There is one kind of exception: those who believe that the world is too horrible a place into which to bring children. Such people believe that there happens to be too much bad in the world to make procreation acceptable. That belief must be right. I disagree only in one way with those who advance it. Unlike (most of) them, I think that there could be much less suffering and yet procreation would remain unacceptable.””

David Benatar

About This Quote

Source Book: Better Never to Have Been: The Harm of Coming into Existence, 1997

The author argues that bringing children into a world with inevitable suffering is morally problematic, even if suffering could be reduced.

In simple terms: Having kids may be wrong because life inevitably includes suffering.

Key Takeaway

Consider the ethics of procreation.

Themes

ethics existentialism parenthood

Mood

thoughtful somber

Type

philosophical ethical

When to use this quote

  • family planning
  • policy debates
  • personal decisions
  • philosophical counseling

Key Concepts

harm suffering moral philosophy

Questions to Reflect On

  • Is it possible to create a life with minimal suffering?
  • What responsibilities do prospective parents have?
A Different Perspective

Some argue that potential joy outweighs suffering, which the author does not fully address.

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