Children Quote by David Benatar
“It is curious that while good people go to great lengths to spare their children from suffering, few of them seem to notice that the one (and only) guaranteed way to prevent all the suffering of their children is not to bring those children into existence in the first place.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Better Off Dead, 2017
He argues that preventing suffering is best achieved by not procreating, as existence inevitably brings pain.
In simple terms: Not having children avoids inevitable suffering.
Key Takeaway
Consider the ethical implications of procreation.
Themes
ethics
existential
parenthood
philosophy
Mood
thoughtful
philosophical
Type
philosophical
controversial
When to use this quote
- family planning
- ethical debates
- population policy
- personal decisions
Key Concepts
anti-natalism
utilitarianism
suffering
Questions to Reflect On
- Is it possible to create a life with more joy than suffering?
- How do cultural values affect this stance?
A Different Perspective
The view may overlook potential joys and meaningful experiences of life.
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