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Emotion Quote by Daniel Goleman

“But the rational mind usually doesn't decide what emotions we "should" have !” quote by Daniel Goleman
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“But the rational mind usually doesn't decide what emotions we "should" have !”

Daniel Goleman

About This Quote

Source Book: Emotional Intelligence, Daniel Goleman, 1995

The rational mind often cannot dictate which emotions are appropriate; feelings arise independently of logic.

In simple terms: Logic can't control feelings.

Key Takeaway

Accept emotions, then guide them with reason.

Themes

emotion reason self-awareness

Mood

reflective thoughtful

Type

advice psychology

When to use this quote

  • personal decision making
  • conflict resolution
  • leadership
  • stress management

Key Concepts

emotional intelligence cognitive dissonance

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you recognize when logic is being overridden by feeling?
  • What strategies help align emotions with goals?
A Different Perspective

Emotions may still dominate despite rational attempts to control them.

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