Boundaries Quote by Cristien Storm
““Explaining justifying or defending a boundary can be distracting, emotionally (and physically) draining and weaken resolve. If someone is so busy explaining why a boundary is valid, they may not be aware of how their boundary is being chipped away at. Or, if a person is defending a boundary and can’t come up with a reason why their boundary is “good” or reasonable, they may not know how to maintain it.””
About This Quote
Explaining or defending a boundary can sap emotional and physical energy, weakening resolve and making one unaware of erosion.
In simple terms: Defending boundaries can be draining and blind to their erosion.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and protect boundaries without over‑justifying.
Themes
boundaries
energy
self‑care
Mood
tired
reflective
Type
advice
psychological
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- workplace negotiations
- family dynamics
Key Concepts
psychology
assertiveness
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you maintain boundaries without exhausting yourself?
- What signs show a boundary is being eroded?
A Different Perspective
Over‑justification may cause fatigue and reduce effectiveness.
