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“We should not be too familiar with the lower orders or with women,” quote by Confucius
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“We should not be too familiar with the lower orders or with women,”

Confucius

About This Quote

Source Analects, Book 12, 5th century BC

Maintain respectful distance from those of lower status, especially women.

In simple terms: Respect hierarchy in relationships.

Key Takeaway

Observe proper social boundaries.

Themes

respect hierarchy gender

Mood

reflective serious

Type

philosophical ethical

When to use this quote

  • family
  • government
  • education
  • rituals

Key Concepts

Confucian ethics social order gender roles

Questions to Reflect On

  • Is hierarchy still relevant today?
  • How to balance respect and equality?
A Different Perspective

Modern values may conflict.

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