Every day Quote by Colm Tóibín
““The idea that she would leave all of this - the rooms of the house once more familiar and warm and comforting - and go back to Brooklyn and not return for a long time again frightened her now. She knew as she sat on the edge of the bed and took her shoes off and then lay back with her arms behind her head that she had spent every day putting off all thought of her departure and what she would meet on her arrival.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Brooklyn by Colm Tóibín, 1998
A woman confronts the anxiety of leaving a familiar home for an uncertain future, realizing she has avoided thinking about both departure and arrival.
In simple terms: She feels fear about leaving home and the unknown ahead.
Key Takeaway
Acknowledge and prepare for change.
Themes
anxiety
home
migration
identity
change
Mood
reflective
melancholic
hopeful
Type
narrative
emotional
literary
When to use this quote
- moving to a new city
- starting a new job
- leaving a long‑term relationship
- traveling abroad
Key Concepts
attachment
anticipation
self‑reflection
Questions to Reflect On
- What fears arise when you consider a major life change?
- How can you turn avoidance into proactive planning?
A Different Perspective
The quote captures personal fear but may overlook practical steps to mitigate it.
