Friendship Quote by Clarissa Pinkola Estés
““Having a lover/friend who regards you as a living growing criatura, being, just as much as the tree from the ground, or a ficus in the house, or a rose garden out in the side yard... having a lover and friends who look at you as a true living breathing entity, one that is human but made of very fine and moist and magical things as well... a lover and friends who support the ciatura in you... these are the people you are looking for. They will be the friends of your soul for life. Mindful choosing of friends and lovers, not to mention teachers, is critical to remaining conscious, remaining intuitive, remaining in charge of the fiery light that sees and knows.””
About This Quote
Source Book: Women Who Run With the Wolves (1992) by Clarissa Pinkola Estés
True companions nurture our inner growth, treating us as living, magical beings, essential for staying conscious, intuitive, and empowered.
In simple terms: Friends and lovers should support our inner spirit.
Key Takeaway
Seek relationships that honor your soul.
Themes
relationships
growth
spirituality
Mood
reflective
inspirational
Type
philosophical
self‑help
When to use this quote
- friendship
- romantic partnership
- mentor relationships
Key Concepts
inner child
magical realism
consciousness
Questions to Reflect On
- Who in your life encourages your inner magic?
- How can you cultivate more soul‑supportive bonds?
A Different Perspective
Not all connections foster growth; some may hinder self-awareness.
