Affairs Quote by Chassis Albuquerque
““I’ve had affairs before but never like this - I need a reason to leave my wife,” Shimansky said, desperately appealing to me. “Won't you wife be annoyed?" I asked. “Probably. No doubt. She usually is…” he said. “That's very complicated. Even worse, what if your wife forgives you…? What then? You going to stay with her and keep doing the other one…?” From: "The Sundial Salesman.””
About This Quote
Source Story: The Sundial Salesman, unknown author
A man rationalizes infidelity by seeking justification, highlighting moral conflict and emotional manipulation.
In simple terms: He looks for an excuse to cheat, showing moral weakness.
Key Takeaway
Avoid rationalizing wrongdoing.
Themes
infidelity
manipulation
morality
Mood
conflicted
anxious
Type
dialogue
dramatic
When to use this quote
- marriage counseling
- therapy sessions
- personal reflection
- relationship advice
Key Concepts
ethical dilemmas
psychology
Questions to Reflect On
- Why do people seek excuses for harmful behavior?
- What are healthier ways to address marital dissatisfaction?
A Different Perspective
Rationalizations can mask deeper issues rather than resolve them.
![“In Stage I, divorces were not allowed, so men's [sexual] affairs did not put women's economic security in jeopardy; in Stage II, affairs could lead to divorce, so men's affairs did place women's economic security in jeopardy. We did not want political leaders who would be role models for behavior…” quote by Warren Farrell](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/ff0/warren-farrell-1187_affair_in-stage-i-divorces-were-not-allowed-so_94551.jpg)
