Love Quote by Charles Bukowski
““out of the arms... out of the arms of one love and into the arms of another I have been saved from dying on the cross by a lady who smokes pot writes songs and stories, and is much kinder than the last, much much kinder, and the sex is just as good or better. it isn't pleasant to be put on the cross and left there, it is much more pleasant to forget a love which didn't work as all love finally doesn't work... it is much more pleasant to make love along the shore in Del Mar in room 42, and afterwards sitting up in bed drinking good wine, talking and touching smoking listening to the waves... I have died too many times believing and waiting, waiting in a room staring at a cracked ceiling waiting for the phone, a letter, a knock, a sound... going wild inside while she danced with strangers in nightclubs... out of the arms of one love and into the arms of another it's not pleasant to die on the cross, it's much more pleasant to hear your name whispered in the dark.””
About This Quote
Source Poem: Untitled, 1990s (spoken word)
The speaker describes moving from a painful, oppressive love to a healthier, more joyful relationship, finding solace in simple pleasures and artistic expression.
In simple terms: Leaving a toxic love for a kinder one brings peace and joy.
Key Takeaway
Seek healthier connections and savor simple joys.
Themes
love
healing
art
freedom
pleasure
Mood
reflective
hopeful
Type
poetic
philosophical
When to use this quote
- ending a breakup
- new romance
- creative writing
- beach walks
Key Concepts
transformation
self‑discovery
intimacy
Questions to Reflect On
- What does “the cross” symbolize for you?
- How do you nurture love that heals?
A Different Perspective
Healing is not linear; past wounds may linger.
