Arbitrary Quote by C. S. Lewis
“I thought I could describe a state; make a map of sorrow. Sorrow, however, turns out to be not a state, but a process. It needs not a map, but a history, and if I don't stop writing that history at some quite arbitrary point, there's no reason why I should ever stop.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: The Problem of Pain, C. S. Lewis, 1940
Sorrow is not a static condition but an ongoing narrative that cannot be fully captured by a single map; it requires a continuous story.
In simple terms: Sorrow is a process, not a fixed state.
Accept sorrow as an evolving story, not a fixed label.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- Therapy sessions
- journaling
- grief counseling
- creative writing
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How does viewing sorrow as a process change your coping?
- What history do you write about your pain?
A single map may oversimplify complex emotions.