Asks Quote by Bruno Bettelheim
“The good enough parent, in addition to being convinced that whatever his child does, he does it because at that moment he is convinced this is the best he can do, will also ask himself: "What in the world would make me act as my child acts at this moment? And if I felt forced to act this way, what would make me feel better about it?”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Empty Fortress by Bruno Bettelheim, 1976
A parent should reflect on why they react as they do and seek self‑compassion when feeling pressured by a child's behavior.
In simple terms: Parents should examine their own motives and find kindness toward themselves.
Key Takeaway
Pause, reflect, and practice self‑compassion.
Themes
parenting
self‑awareness
compassion
Mood
thoughtful
empathetic
Type
advice
reflective
When to use this quote
- parent‑child conflict
- stressful moments
- self‑reflection
- seeking support
Key Concepts
psychology
mindfulness
emotional regulation
Questions to Reflect On
- What triggers my immediate reaction to my child's behavior?
- How can I reframe my response with kindness?
A Different Perspective
Self‑reflection can be uncomfortable and may reveal deeper insecurities.
