Agree Quote by Bruno Bettelheim
“As Anna Freud remarked, the toddler who wanders off into some other aisle, feels lost, and screams anxiously for his mother neversays "I got lost," but accusingly says "You lost me!" It is a rare mother who agrees that she lost him! she expects her child to stay with her; in her experience it is the child who has lost track of the mother, while in the child's experience it is the mother who has lost track of him. Each view is entirely correct from the perspective of the individual who holds it .”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Uses of Enchantment by Bruno Bettelheim, 1976
The quote illustrates how perspective shapes perception of responsibility and loss in parent‑child relationships.
In simple terms: Each sees the other as the one who is lost.
Key Takeaway
Recognize differing viewpoints.
Themes
perspective
responsibility
parenting
communication
Mood
reflective
empathetic
Type
psychological
relational
When to use this quote
- parent‑child conflict
- family therapy
- educational settings
- mediating disputes
Key Concepts
psychology
subjectivity
relational dynamics
Questions to Reflect On
- How does your perspective affect your interpretation of conflict?
- What can both parties do to clarify expectations?
A Different Perspective
May overlook shared responsibility and mutual effort to stay connected.
![“I will not agree to have this bill [to repeal DADT ] go forward, because our economy is in the tank.” quote by John McCain](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/c2c/john-mccain-465_agree_i-will-not-agree-to-have-this-bill-to-re_7321.jpg)
