Needs Quote by Barbara Deming
“People who attack others need rationalizations for doing so. We undermine those rationalizations.”
About This Quote
People who attack others seek excuses; exposing those excuses undermines their justification.
In simple terms: Attacks hide behind excuses; exposing them weakens attacks.
Expose excuses to defuse aggression.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- political debates
- online harassment
- personal arguments
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you recognize rationalizations?
- What strategies expose them?
Attacks may persist despite exposure.