“Fears and expectations that date back to earlier experiences of dependency, but that didn't arise during courtship or dating, are activated as… — Stan Tatkin Commitment Copy Share Image
“Couples in distress too often turn to solutions that can be summed up by "You do your thing and I'll do my… — Stan Tatkin Love Copy Share Image
“When we enter into a relationship, we want to matter to our partner, to be visible and important....We want to know our… — Stan Tatkin Marriage Copy Share Image
“They may lack confidence in their ability to leave a romantic relationship when and if necessary. Fear of abandonment eclipses all other… — Stan Tatkin Confidence Copy Share Image
“Devote yourself to your partner's sense of safety and security and not simply to your idea about what that should be. What… — Stan Tatkin Cybersecurity Copy Share Image
“The couple bubble is an agreement to put the relationship before anything and everything else. It means putting your partner's well-being, self-esteem… — Stan Tatkin Love Copy Share Image
