Discipline Quote by Arthur Martine
““Politeness must be cultivated, for the promptings of nature are eminently selfish, and courtesy and good-breeding are only attainable by effort and discipline. But even courtesy has limits where dignity should govern it, for when carried to excess, particularly in manner, it borders on sycophancy, which is almost as despicable as rudeness.””
About This Quote
Source Essay: Social etiquette, publication unknown
Politeness requires effort; natural selfishness must be tempered by courtesy, but excessive deference becomes sycophancy, rivaling rudeness.
In simple terms: Politeness is a disciplined balance.
Key Takeaway
Practice respectful, balanced courtesy.
Themes
courtesy
discipline
selfishness
respect
sycophancy
rudeness
Mood
thoughtful
balanced
critical
Type
Discipline:1
Manners:1
Nature:0
Politeness:1
Respect:1
Rudeness:1
Politeness Cultivated:0
Selfish Courtesy:0
Discipline Courtesy:0
When to use this quote
- workplace
- family gatherings
- public service
Key Concepts
social norms
ethical behavior
personal boundaries
Questions to Reflect On
- When does politeness become harmful?
- How to maintain dignity while being courteous?
A Different Perspective
Over‑politeness can suppress honesty.
