Abstinence Quote by Anne Brontë
““I have heard that, with some persons, temperance – that is, moderation – is almost impossible; and if abstinence be an evil (which some have doubted), no one will deny that excess is a greater. Some parents have entirely prohibited their children from tasting intoxicating liquors; but a parent’s authority cannot last for ever; children are naturally prone to hanker after forbidden things; and a child, in such a case, would be likely to have a strong curiosity to taste, and try the effect of what has been so lauded and enjoyed by others, so strictly forbidden to himself – which curiosity would generally be gratified on the first convenient opportunity; and the restraint once broken, serious consequences might ensue.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Tenant of Wildfell Hall, Anne Brontë, 1848
Moderation is hard; prohibition fuels curiosity, leading to eventual excess and serious fallout.
In simple terms: Too much restriction breeds rebellion.
Key Takeaway
Balance guidance with personal responsibility.
Themes
temperance
curiosity
parenting
addiction
consequences
Mood
reflective
thoughtful
cautious
Type
ethical
philosophical
When to use this quote
- parental guidance
- education
- substance policy
- personal decision‑making
Key Concepts
psychology of desire
self‑control
risk behavior
Questions to Reflect On
- What is the best way to teach moderation?
- How can societies reduce harmful curiosity?
A Different Perspective
Strict bans often backfire, creating stronger urges.
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