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Love Quote by Anne Brontë

“Keep a guard over your eyes and ears as the inlets of your heart, and over your lips as the outlet, lest they betray you in a moment of unwariness. Receive, coldly and dispassionately, every attention, till you have ascertained and duly considered the worth of the aspirant; and let your affections…” quote by Anne Brontë
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““Keep a guard over your eyes and ears as the inlets of your heart, and over your lips as the outlet, lest they betray you in a moment of unwariness. Receive, coldly and dispassionately, every attention, till you have ascertained and duly considered the worth of the aspirant; and let your affections be consequent upon approbation alone. First study; then approve; then love. Let your eyes be blind to all external attractions, your ears deaf to all the fascinations of flattery and light discourse. - These are nothing - and worse than nothing - snares and wiles of the tempter, to lure the thoughtless to their own destruction. Principle is the first thing, after all; and next to that, good sense, respectability, and moderate wealth. If you should marry the handsomest, and most accomplished and superficially agreeable man in the world, you little know the misery that would overwhelm you if, after all, you should find him to be a worthless reprobate, or even an impracticable fool.””

Anne Brontë

About This Quote

Guard your senses and speech, evaluate affections rationally, and prioritize principle, sense, and modest wealth over superficial attraction and flattery.

In simple terms: Control senses, assess love rationally, value principle.

Key Takeaway

Discernment and principle protect against shallow temptations.

Themes

self‑control rationality principle love materialism

Mood

cautious reflective didactic

Type

advice philosophical moral

When to use this quote

  • advice for healthy relationships
  • personal development workshops
  • teaching critical thinking in romance
  • financial planning with modest goals

Key Concepts

the hierarchy of values psychology of attraction

Practical Applications

  • apply a three‑step filter before commitment
  • focus on character over appearance

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can we balance rational assessment with emotional authenticity?
  • What role does modest wealth play in personal fulfillment?
A Different Perspective

Rigid rationalism may suppress genuine emotional connection and spontaneity.

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