Decision Quote by Thomas Hardy
““When you've made up your mind to marry, take the first respectable body that comes to hand- she's as good as any other; they'll be all alike in the groundwork; 'tis only in the flourishes there's a difference.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Tess of the d'Urbervilles, 1891
Marriage choices often prioritize practicality over romance, with true distinction lying in subtle personal flourishes.
In simple terms: Practical marriage choices hide deeper personal differences.
Key Takeaway
Seek depth beyond surface compatibility.
Themes
marriage
practicality
individuality
Mood
thoughtful
analytical
Type
advice
literary critique
When to use this quote
- partner selection
- family planning
- social expectations
- personal growth
Key Concepts
social norms
personal values
Questions to Reflect On
- What subtle qualities matter most in a partner?
- How do you balance practicality and romance?
A Different Perspective
Societal pressure may overlook genuine connection.
