Ask me Quote by Angela Alioto
![“[After her 18-day disappearance in 1974:] I love my husband very, very much, but he didn't ask me when he ran for mayor and he didn't consult me about running for governor. It would be nice to be asked. ... You know, I've been my mother's daughter, my father's daughter, the wife of my husband, the…” quote by Angela Alioto](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/a5a/angela-alioto-29373_ask-me_after-her-18-day-disappearance-in-1974-i_125354.jpg)
“[After her 18-day disappearance in 1974:] I love my husband very, very much, but he didn't ask me when he ran for mayor and he didn't consult me about running for governor. It would be nice to be asked. ... You know, I've been my mother's daughter, my father's daughter, the wife of my husband, the mother of my six children, and grandmother to my eleven grandchildren, but I have never been me. But I am now because I went away. I am a changed woman.”
About This Quote
After a long disappearance, she reflects on being defined by relationships rather than personal identity, and now feels transformed.
In simple terms: Never truly myself until I left; now I'm changed.
Key Takeaway
Self‑realization can emerge from stepping outside prescribed roles.
Themes
identity
self‑discovery
gender roles
Mood
reflective
hopeful
Type
personal testimony
When to use this quote
- post‑career transition
- personal growth retreat
Key Concepts
role conflict
Practical Applications
- redefine personal narrative
- seek independent experiences
Questions to Reflect On
- What steps helped her find personal identity?
- How can others break role‑based self‑views?
A Different Perspective
Self‑definition may still be influenced by past roles.
![“I think the book [Straight to the Heart: Political Cantos] has meaning for any large city with urban problems. There are political machines in a lot of large cities, and everywhere the goals of society get lost.” quote by Angela Alioto](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/030/angela-alioto-29373_book_i-think-the-book-straight-to-the-heart-p_71822.jpg)
![“My original book [Straight to the Heart: Political Cantos] was 1,700 pages. The first editor brought it down to 700; there was a lot that didn't make it in. But at last it's finished. I had a hard time signing off on it. And I was worried about it hurting anyone I loved even indirectly. I sat in…” quote by Angela Alioto](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/1f2/angela-alioto-29373_being-judged_my-original-book-straight-to-the-heart-p_929484.jpg)
![“I never worked on anything so hard in my life [like my book 'Straight to the Heart: Political Cantos'], including the Bar exam. The only other thing I could compare it to is having four babies by age 24. That was hard.” quote by Angela Alioto](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/9a9/angela-alioto-29373_age_i-never-worked-on-anything-so-hard-in-my_2380202.jpg)
![“My progressive ideals are screaming in [Straight to the Heart: Political Cantos] book; what I believe. There is no muddying-up because of debate. You know exactly where I stand, because I put it down in the written word.” quote by Angela Alioto](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/645/angela-alioto-29373_believe_my-progressive-ideals-are-screaming-in-s_2645318.jpg)
