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“A simple rule in dealing with those who are hard to get along with is to remember that this person is striving to assert his superiority; and you must deal with him from that point of view.” quote by Alfred Adler
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“A simple rule in dealing with those who are hard to get along with is to remember that this person is striving to assert his superiority; and you must deal with him from that point of view.”

Alfred Adler

About This Quote

Source Book: Understanding Human Nature, 1927

Treat difficult people by recognizing their drive for superiority and respond accordingly.

In simple terms: Acknowledge their need for dominance.

Key Takeaway

Address their underlying motive.

Themes

psychology relationships power dynamics

Mood

analytical empathetic

Type

psychological advice

When to use this quote

  • conflict resolution
  • leadership
  • team management
  • negotiation

Key Concepts

superiority complex interpersonal strategy

Questions to Reflect On

  • What motivates someone's need for dominance?
  • How can you shift the dynamic without confrontation?
A Different Perspective

Assumes all conflict stems from superiority.

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