Crosses Quote by Alfred Adler
“Far more unwaveringly, the neurotic keeps before his eye his God, his idol, his ideal of personality and clings to his guiding principle, losing sight in the meanwhile of reality, whereas the normal person is always ready to dispense with this crutch, this aid, and reckon unhampered with reality.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Practice and Theory of Individual Psychology, Alfred Adler, 1927
A neurotic fixes on an ideal or principle, ignoring reality, while a healthy person adapts flexibly to real circumstances.
In simple terms: Neurotic clings to ideals, normal adapts to reality.
Key Takeaway
Stay grounded and adjust to reality.
Themes
psychology
self-awareness
adaptability
Mood
reflective
analytical
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- therapy sessions
- personal development
- decision making
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
individual psychology
idealism
reality testing
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you hold onto any ideal that blinds you to reality?
- How can you balance principles with practical needs?
A Different Perspective
Overemphasis on ideals can cause rigidity and missed opportunities.
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