Friendship Quote by Aldous Huxley
““The habit of their intimacy was of too long standing and, besides, old Colin was so useful, so bottomlessly reliable. So Judd remained for him the Oldest Friend whom one definitely dislikes; while for Judd, he was the Oldest Friend whom one adores and at the same time hates for not adoring back, the Oldest Friend whom one never sees enough of, but whom, when he is there, one finds insufferably exasperating, the Oldest Friend whom, in spite of all one's efforts, one is always getting on the nerves of.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: “The Book of Memory” by Aldous Huxley, 1934
Describes a complex friendship where affection, irritation, and dependence intertwine, creating both love and resentment.
In simple terms: A friendship that is both cherished and irritating.
Key Takeaway
Accept mixed feelings in close relationships.
Themes
friendship
complexity
emotions
Mood
conflicted
reflective
Type
philosophical
psychological
When to use this quote
- longterm partnerships
- family ties
- team dynamics
- creative collaborations
Key Concepts
dependence
irritation
affection
psychology
Questions to Reflect On
- What boundaries help manage love‑hate dynamics?
- Can you appreciate value despite annoyance?
A Different Perspective
Such relationships can be draining.
