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“We hurt ourselves not by what we ask for, but what we settle for.” quote by Alan Cohen
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“We hurt ourselves not by what we ask for, but what we settle for.”

Alan Cohen

About This Quote

Source Book: The Book of Secrets, Alan Cohen, 2003

We suffer more from accepting mediocrity than from daring to desire more.

In simple terms: Settling causes pain, not wanting.

Key Takeaway

Aim higher, avoid settling.

Themes

expectations self‑esteem growth

Mood

reflective determined

Type

motivational philosophical

When to use this quote

  • career stagnation
  • relationship dissatisfaction
  • personal development

Key Concepts

self‑limiting beliefs contentment

Questions to Reflect On

  • What are you settling for today?
  • How could higher aspirations change your life?
A Different Perspective

Accepting less can trap you in complacency.

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